Sometimes at night I suddenly become aware of all the things I’m missing out on right now, and all the people who I’m not close to anymore, and all of the good times that will never happen again, and all the people who meant the world to me who have forgotten about me forever, and I get this awful feeling that’s kind of like a mix between loneliness and nostalgia.
cornerofjets asked: Hey I hope this is not weird, but ive been following your blog for awhile, and i was just curious. how do you work things out with your boyfriend? i have a boyfriend and whenever we fight, it seems as if its forever and i want it to end but im usually the one with the problem and holds onto the past
OH MY GOSH, I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM. :| I can’t let go of the pass that easily either. It seems to keep coming up and bothering me.
Whenever that happens and I talk it out with my boyfriend, we argue as well. But, I realized that I have to consider his feelings when we argue cause I know he doesn’t like it when I hold onto the past, since it makes me depressed and I’m just making myself sad. He lets me know how he feels about everything and I do the same, so we both have an understanding and a common ground on things. After, we compromise (if what we what is a change).
I don’t know if this helps much, but try to let him know how you feel about everything. In return, listen to how he feels about you holding onto the past. Try to let go of the past, little by little, if that’s the source of your arguments. It will take a ton of stress of your back and you will feel MUCH more relieved. But, if the past comes back and makes you feel depressed/sad/irritated/mad/jealous, remember that he chose YOU for a reason and that he has stayed with you because he likes YOU for who you are now. He won’t want you to hold onto the past because it will just hurt you.
I HOPE I HELPED IN SOME WAY. D: Seems like a lot of rambling on to me. T_T But if there’s anything confusing feel free to message me again! haha